A Signpost, Not the Destination

I don’t offer my time to men and women, one to one, to be their healer. I’m not a therapist, and I’m not a qualified practitioner in something like neuro-linguistic programming. I am simply a man who has lived life so far having, for many years, projected a certain image while internally things were very different. I am someone with many years of lived experience as a husband, as a father, as an entrepreneur—someone carrying significant weight and responsibility, spinning many plates at once.

I have learned the hard way what it means to continue striving, to keep moving forward, growing, adapting, and becoming more outwardly accomplished, only to then experience collapse. I’ve learned the hard way, but now, through the life experiences I’ve had both before and following total collapse, I am deeply grateful that I’m able to be someone men and women can relate to, someone they can trust, and someone they can open up to.

I see my role as being a signpost—someone who can gently give a little direction, share a few relatable life experiences, and pass on some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way. Nothing forced. Nothing prescribed. Just presence, honesty, and truth shared quietly and carefully.

The greatest desire of my heart is to help see other men and women begin to experience peace unlike anything they have ever known before. Peace was what I believed held the key for me. Back in 2018, after spending five years in one-to-one therapy, I then turned to hypnotherapy. In my first deep hypnotherapy session, my heart’s desire was simple: to come into peace, and to understand where my inner peace had been stolen—at what point in my earlier childhood years that peace had been lost.

It was in 2019, weeks after finishing hypnotherapy—which did not bring the healing or peace I was so desperate for—that I finally came into a peace that surpasses all understanding. I am now deeply honoured to be able to share with others about that peace, whether through the words I may speak, or simply through being present with them.